Doesn’t it seem that children are generally happier than adults? They are full of boundless energy and it doesn’t take much to elicit a smile.

Somewhere along the road to adulthood, we lose the fun and spontaneity of our earlier years. Our worries rob us of the joy we once felt over the simplest of things. We often speak of the wonders of childhood, or of looking at the world through a child’s eyes, but don’t practice it nearly enough.

I recall each of my children in succession toddling up to me, a dandelion clutched in their tiny fist, reaching up and saying, “For you, Mommy”.  It was as if they were presenting me with the most beautiful flower in the world.  And in that moment, it was.

“Thank you, sweetie, I love it.”

A dandelion. That pesky weed with the bright flower announcing its presence, taunting me with its ability to spread. Any day now it would turn into what seemed like a million seeds.

When your child blows on the white seed head and makes a wish all you can think is, oh, great, a million more dandelions taking over the yard. But you cheer them on, not wanting to spoil the magic.

You might be surprised to learn that the dandelion actually has many benefits. It’s been used as a food and herbal remedy throughout history. It attracts pollinating insects to the garden. Its taproot brings up nutrients for shallow rooting plants. These are just a few of the many.

I recall my grandfather making dandelion wine. I also recall my parents not liking it, but being polite!

Truth is, there are many instances in life where we make assumptions, without knowing all of the facts. We can cast aside someone who might actually become a good friend, based off of a first impression, or worse yet, gossip we’ve heard. A good job opportunity could be overlooked because we didn’t investigate further. Ha! Many people cast aside any belief in God because of how a few “hypocrites” behave.

Negative all too often shadows out the positive. What a shame it would be to miss out if we were simply presumptive without looking at the whole picture.

So let’s make it a point to appreciate what’s around us, as a child would. See the good, not the bad.

Oh, and if you want to prevent those weeds from procreating, pick all of those bright yellow “flowers” and present the bouquet to a child you know. Enjoy the smiles you’re sure to receive.

Have a great weekend-

Carolyn

“Life isn’t easy. Together we can make it better.”